部落格

最近看一个自己很熟悉的Auntie开始在写部落格，60岁的人写部落格是值得敬佩的，至少在电脑和汉语拼音上的努力，比起很多年轻人，她的学习精神，打从心里赞赏。但对于她部落格内容的真实性，却不敢恭维。对我来说，写部落格是非常个人的事，每个人的目的都不一样。有些人可能真的是想就此引来瞩目，一举成名；有些人可能就是纯粹把部落格当成是与朋友沟通和分享的桥梁；有些可能是为了抒发心中的点滴，为了不让写作能力退化而来..........什么都好，喜欢与不喜欢，那是写部落格，策划博客的拥有者的权利，没有人可以残忍的给予抨击。我也一样。有时当我看到内容的虚构程度非常严重时，也只是默默的在读，在浏览。因为那是别人家的事，事不关己，何必忧心？反而觉得其娱乐性还蛮强的。以一个60岁的人写出这样一拖拖的精彩故事，非常难得。

可是今天竟然看到有人在她的部落格抨击她，批评她为何把自家的悲哀搬到网上来。读了她们之间的对话，不由得同情起她们两个人来。抨击的人也的确很有心，而且怪怪的。如果不喜欢，那就别读啊！我们都有权选择读与不读，何必阻止别人的行为方向呢？她以为她是部落格法官，可以判决什么内容应该写或不应该写吗？有点说不过去的滑稽。

而那位一片云阿姨何必为了此事而动气？闲人多得是，如果每天忙着应酬这些人，那岂不是白白浪费生命？况且活了60个年头不是简单的事，忙着跟这些不相干的人解释，岂不是糟蹋了这60年储蓄起来的内涵？

摘录她们之间的"对话"，原来写部落格也有"罪"。

avena said...
I have been following this blog silently for some time. You sound like a broken record. By repeatedly posting your grievances, you are exposing your weakness for others to see, hence all the friendly and unfriendly replies. Why don’t you give it a rest and just post things that are relevant like those accounts of your tours? Leave the past behind and you will be happier I think.
January 16, 2009 3:36 PM
Yi Pian Yun said...
Dear avena, thank you very much 4 your comment.I think out of the posts i have written, only a few post are about my grievances.When i first mentioned about my past, I expected friendly encouragement whether from my friends or strangers.I was shocked that ppl first comment was so discouraging n as if cursing me.Come on, i am only a normal human, how can i take the blow ?Dun worry, what i have written just wanna "teach" the person a lesson. I think i will give up writing since i have already written enough of the grivances.As i have said , i just write to have fun.Ppl ask me if my stomach is too full ( that means too free),I should say I am very2busy, sometimes I have to give tuition to 3 classes of students, and go 30 over Km away from my hometown.If i were to write a post, i have 2 sacrifice my time 4 reading newspaper n my naps in weekend.i lost 2 kg per month when i first started 2 write.i think myself more on the side 2 protect myself when i was attacked, hope u understand me, thans 4 every things.may i know u comment it on yourself or on ppl behalf ?God bless U
January 16, 2009 8:20 PM
Yi Pian Yun said...
Mention abt the past has nothing to do with my happiness, to be frank with you, I am as happy as ever, thank you.
January 16, 2009 8:33 PM
avena said...
Yi Pian Yun, I don't like to make comment in fact. That's why I kept quiet for so long. I am a very private person. I don't make comment for others and also have no contacts with others. Hope you adon't mind my comment. Wishing you a very happy Ox-picious CNY.
January 16, 2009 8:46 PM
Yi Pian Yun said...
ok, thanks a lot.I also wish to tell you that mention abt the past 4 an old lady like me is very common, it has nothing to do with my happiness.To be frank with u, I am as happy as ever.But from where you got my blog address ? It is my diary, in fact i dont wish ppl to read too.happy new CNY to you too.
January 16, 2009 8:51 PM
avena said...
Ok, my last comment in this blog. For your information, a blog is a very open place and easily accessible by others because you are using common blogger, not a private website. If you don't wish people to read your blog, then you shouldn't be writing it. You should be writng diary instead. I like to browse around and read other people's blog, but not to comment if and when I feel that it is necessary to do so.
January 16, 2009 9:53 PM